Childish actions

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Registered: 11-02-2005
Childish actions
Thu, 01-19-2006 - 9:54am
Would you believe this. Last night my H and I were discussing a conservation program plan for our property - it's a 15 yr obligation with penalties if breaking contract, vs another plan that does not have penalties. Anyway he says we won't sell the property thereby not breaking the 15 yr obligation and jokingly he says your not planning on divorcing me. (I have posted here before - recap - been married over 14 yrs, two children 4, 8, he is a verbal abusive person, not to his knowledge I have a laywer on retainer with the paperwork drafted up, just working on the courage to go through with it.) When I did not respond he asked for an honest answer...so I gave him it. I told him at times I cannot see us making thru the week, or month let alone see that far in the future. Well this pissed him off and I got mean stares and the silent treatment the rest of the night. And to top that off this morning I was in my S room because he woke-up in the middle of the night and I fell asleep in there. My H, being childish, did not have the maturity to come and wake me up when he left for work, so I would not be late for work or to plug in my curlers which he always does every morning. He gets me so aggravated. Sorry just need to vent. Thanks for reading.