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Confused
| Tue, 01-03-2006 - 3:03pm |
I'm really stressing right now. I have a restraining order on my H but like an idiot I let him stayf ro x-mas and the new year with all his lovely talk. Now I'm feeling used and gross and really confused. When I told him to leave this morning he started acting weird. He threw a note that I wrote to myself that he kept all these years and it fell in my coffee. He started saying I was the one to blame and that all I do is blame people for my own mistakes and my onw problems. Now he wont leave but I'm afraid to call the police because I let him in. I don't know what to do.
Moni
Moni

here's what I would do
be strong and stay calm, look him in the eye and tell him he has 30 min to leave, if you're not gone in 30 min, I will phone the police to remove you. Then leave the room, ignore him and keep track of the time, after 30 min and he is still there, phone the police.
Don't be afraid to phone them, you had a laps in judgement because of the holidays, you won't get in trouble.