Court date 4/5 . . .
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Court date 4/5 . . .
| Fri, 04-02-2004 - 10:14am |
My first court date is this coming Monday to discuss child support and hopefully get him to make the house payment. I'm very nervous. I haven't had the energy to get together all my papers. He is self-employed and hides a lot of money, so proof of income is going to be hard to prove. I have found money several times he has hidden from me, and I have a few things showing where he took large amounts of money out when he made a deposit. Hopefully, that can sway the judge. Please say a great big prayer for me this weekend.
This has been a terrible week. My son came back home, but I know things could explode with him at any time. H (or should I say STBH?) is denying and keeping up his lies. I am so upset about his lies that it is 'eating me up'. How do I get over this?
Hugs,
Jackie

Use your frustration as a motivator.
CL-Blueliner4
I'm not sure that I'll be of any help, but I will put in plenty of wishes, prayers, and good vibes for you all weekend long for things to go smoothly for you. Remember to breath! That may sound funny, but when you feel stressed, breath, think about your breathing. It will distract you for a minute while you gather your thoughts. Jackie - you can do this. I know you've been together a long time, but now - it is your time. Your time to make this choice a reality then to move on to the wonderful things that are waiting for you around the corner.
The only things I can think of is to ask any and all questions to your lawyer that you can think of. Perhaps you could contact the local dv center or even call the national number and ask if there is anything in particular you should be doing or gathering at this time. I know that one time when I talked with the national hotline number they said they could provide basic legal help.
hang in there,
I'm thinking of you.
Pam
Gentle hugs and a warm beverage along with a snuggly blanket for you. I will be thinking of you an saying a prayer so you have the strength to do this. You can do this. You are such a strong person. Just do the best that you can with your son. That is all that you can do. I am sorry that I dont have any answers for you but know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.
Take care of yourself lady.
Hugs,
Ree
Jackie, I'm not going to pretend to know what to do about the financial aspects of all this.
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl =)
The minute you settle for less than you