Court tomorrow - feeling a bit edgy
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| Tue, 09-14-2004 - 2:25am |
Well, this is it. I have court tomorrow at 10:30am Arizona time. Eric has already said he won't be there - isn't invited, in fact, since he didn't file a response to the divorce. My mom took off work and is going with me for support. I'm a bit wigged out tonight. Not worried or nervous. Anxious, I think. Not sure why. Maybe it's just the thought that it's finally going to be over. I've been out for over 16 months, and the divorce has taken 11 months from filing to hearing. Thank goodness it's finally here!
Nothing much has changed - no child support since January, he blames me for all the world's ills, Dani isn't visiting him at all still (but she is headed to college in January - 8 months early!), Hannah does her every-third-week visit and then is a terror for several days before and after. Hannah goes into counseling in October. He switched the girls' insurance, so she can't start until then. She actually punched me a couple of weeks ago when she didn't get her way. That was tough to deal with.
But there is a bright spot. He is monumentally unhappy at work because they don't treat him like the king he thinks he is so he is looking for work. Out of town! Send prayers and positive vibes that he gets something very good very far away! He used to live in Alaska and liked it quite a bit. That wouldn't be too far. Ha! Just kidding. I don't think he'd go there unless it was very lucrative. I'd settle for a different school district.
Anyway, I know it's been a long time since I've been around, but I was hoping for some good vibes to get me through tomorrow. I'm not sure how much sleep I'll get tonight, but I have a feeling tomorrow night I'll sleep like a baby! Thanks for listening.
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl :-)

Here's a bunch coming your way. What bad can happen compared to what you've already faced? Actually, I am jealous. I filed nine months ago and nothing is going on. Of course, I am not surprised. Old Wendell was always ready to hurry up and do nothing. So, I just pay the lawyer some $$$ each month to take care of the little tricks the idiot plays.
Well, get ready to say checkmate and stop for a bottle of champagne on the way home!
Terry
Terry, it will happen. I remember when you first came here. I'm sure others remember when I first came here, too. Oh, how far we've come, girl! This place has been my guiding light. It feels good to come back here. I shouldn't stay away so long! Hang in there. And thank you for the good thoughts!
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl :-)
What a fruit.
CL-Blueliner4
The judge was terrific. She didn't like this every-third-week thing, but she accepted my response that once I got Hannah into counseling, I was going to come back to court to change it. She also did something that shocked me completely. She back-dated child support to February of this year, since that's when he signed the child support worksheet. She asked when he had last paid me and I told her January, so she back dated it! I couldn't believe it. Several people had told me that they wouldn't do that, so I was shocked. It adds up to $1925 in arrears, payable at $25 a month, which means he'll be paying it for 77 months. But that's okay. At least she is making him pay it! Then he has to pay September's payment right away and October coming up in a couple of weeks. I think he has to mail the first check himself, then it's automatically garnished. Arizona is great with child support collection if he has a job.
I'm excited and exhausted. I know that I'll have to hear about the back support as soon as he finds out. So I'm a bit apprehensive about that. But otherwise, I'm so glad this is over!!!! Thank you all for you support over the last 2+ years. Without all of you supporting me and helping me, I know that I wouldn't be here today doing this. My life is truly my own again!
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl :-)
WHOOOOOOO!!!
CL-Blueliner4
I have a tear in my eye, pride in you for going through it all and coming out victorious.
Hugs!
Christine
CELEBRATE!
Mama Harmony
;)
MG
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl :-)