Daughter is moving out
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| Fri, 04-22-2005 - 9:00am |
Hia friends , our 18 year old daughter has decided to move out as she is realisng the situation in the house is stopping her from living her life.
I am very sad about this indeed, and i really dont want her to go , but i fully understand that shes got to do whats best for her.
Shes not moving far , and shes getting a 2 bed flat/house so that our other daughter whos 14, can go there when things get bad.
I feel as if everybody is going against me , even though i know they are not.?
Katy , the 18 yr old , has been staying at friends a lot , because her dad wont do anything about his problems , her dad by the way doenst seem bothered about this.
I say to him Katy is out again all night because you wont go and help help , or you wont talk to her , he doesnt even try!!!
Hes never actually sat face to face with us , any of us and talked things through , his idea of talking is us agreeing to everything he says.
Our 14 yr old , Amy , has told me that as soon as shes 18 shes going too , BUT , , in the same the breath , shes telling me that she doesnt want her dad to go .........i just dont get it at all.
God help me , im so unhappy , what life is this for me.....

I really am sorry to hear about your daughter moving out.
Wow.
CL-Blueliner4
I think your 14 year old is just very confused at the moment and it is difficult for her to work her feelings out.
Is your GP any good? I know mine has offered to refer me to a counsellor before.