Decided to close join checking accout

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Registered: 07-25-2004
Decided to close join checking accout
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Tue, 07-11-2006 - 10:56pm

I have decided to close our join account, we had a terrible weekend. He got drunk and pretented to choke our 1 yr old, he also pretended to stab her with a fork, and this was in public! He has never done anything to her, I feel it slowly getting worse. I hate him now, I cant believe he touched my baby. He didn't hurt her, but the motions frightened me. (he later said he was just playing...he certainly fooled me)

I am closing our account tomorrow, I am scared because I know he will keep his check and probably use it to get drunk, but I will be dam$ed if he is spending any of my money on that crap (I make more, much more, than he does). But at least this way he is no longer spending and I can save money to move. I am also going to tell him to leave, although I don't think it will do any good, I have told him many times.

I cant wait to leave him. I feel so happy just thinking about it.

Thanks for reading!

M.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2005
Fri, 07-14-2006 - 8:24am

Melly, is it possible for you to consult a lawyer?