Do I even attempt to return his stuff?
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|Mon, 12-17-2012 - 4:47pm|
So he's been gone for over 5yrs. I haven't seen or heard from him or about him in over a year.
I had my kids(and their kids and SO's) over for dinner Sat nite. I told my kids they could head up to the attic and take whatever Christmas ornaments/decorations/lights they wanted. And then they found a box of his stuff. Kid pics, his yearbook...etc.
I put it all in one box and said I was going to make sure he got it all back. (no, I do not venture into my hard to access attic but I do keep the things I use close to the entrance) My kids were very taken aback. WHY? would you care if he got any of this? F*** him (and from my baby girl, 12 ~ If you would have listend to ME about him none of this would have happened) Anyway...
Last September we had some horrific flooding and I know that the place he was living place was a total loss. It's his new GF/Wife's (don't know/don't care the true story) home. Maybe it's the skids that I am thinking about, maybe the devestation of losing everything and I KNOW I have this stuff and could be a good person and return it. Or I could be a cold hearted B and just throw it out.
I was surprised by my kids reaction because at one time they really thought the world of him.
Do they know better than me? I don't trust my own instincts anymore....Any thoughts?