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| Sat, 04-16-2005 - 11:03am |
Well after having my poor mom, msg. boards, and friends listen to me complain day after day after day, I decided w/ my dh and dd gone all wk. (he is taking her to Europe to visit son studying abroad), it will be perfect time for me to go looking for a place.
He has successfully screwed w/ my head long enuf, but worse yet, has sucessfully set her against me soooo bad, she listens to absolutely nothing i say, so sad, I have tried everything, I cannot fite the candyman, my only hope for her, is she realizes one day in the not so distant future money is fun, but luv understanding listening and being there for her all this day is wayyy more important.
There is some extra cash set aside so I will be actively looking for a place and when they get back inna wk I will be outta here. My vacation forever. He drew his last straw when we AGREED on something re; DD and went against me again in front of her. ENOUGH.
Anyway she is sooo bad, check this out, she caught me on this site, and said Oh mom I see you are getting tips and lessons on how to cause MORE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AROUND HERE. Good God help me. I am remaining tuff, making a plan, and she can have her lil fun around him and here. Hmmmmm I guess she forgets it was HIM not me, who smacked ME upside MY head. Poor kid. and shame on me for not leaving here sooner that she has become the monster she has.
Thank you all no worries I will be in touch.

YAY!!!!!!! Let me tell you, I recently left (well, kicked STBX out) and although it has been stressful, it has also been so liberating!!!! Do you have any family or friends you can call on for support? You'll probably need it. Just do one thing. If you're thinking about going back, about calling, anything like that, POST HERE FIRST!!!!! Get out what you want to say/do and hear what others have to say, it will save your butt!! LOL!
How sad that your H has even conditioned your daughter against you! Well, she's a teenager right? Well, soon enough, she'll regret not listening to you. Yeah, being able to have fun all of the time is great, but at some point it will bite her in the a$$. She'll be wishing she hadn't been so horrible to you b/c she's going to need you.
Good luck finding a place. My STBX just found a place for him to stay for $250/month including utilities! Yay!! That means no guilt on my part about collecting child support!
Oh that is wonderful news loreg!