Exhaustion Setting In
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Exhaustion Setting In
| Thu, 07-01-2004 - 7:11am |
Hi ladies, Is there any of you out there dealing with a chronic illness and abuse? I have chron's disease which makes me VERY tired and it just seems to make it so hard....I spend so much energy just getting through the day without all of the mind games and emotional turmoil in my life at the moment. I am having a really hard time sleeping at the moment which just makes me feel even worse. My H wants to move back in to 'help me' yeah right I am not that tired not to see his real motive. I have to admit the offer of help sounds so nice though I just don't have the energy to fight my body and my mind....does anyone have some gentle words of wisdom..I want to be free so badly I just don't know if I have the strength to get it!!!
Ironically the worst thing for my illness is stress...and guess what I have ooodles of at the moment....its almost laughable!!
hugs for everyone and thanks for any replies
M
Ironically the worst thing for my illness is stress...and guess what I have ooodles of at the moment....its almost laughable!!
hugs for everyone and thanks for any replies
M

Hugs,
Jackie
Hurty, what this is going to come down to is you taking care of yourself and turning the focus on you instead of having it on him.
CL-Blueliner4
Rachael
I have come to the conclusion that all of the answers from my posts there is one big common thread and that is to cut contact with him. As much as I know in my heart that is the only way I can be free of him to sort out my feelings. I thought him moving out would be enough but it isn't because I am basically talking to him every day for one thing or another and I am seeing him every few days ...infact he is staying at our house with me tonight.
I am making steps toward moving into a rental and he can move back into our home but there have been a few hiccups and the going is slow.
I recently received some money from the government for our kids and I thought I would use that to move out with...I haven't asked for child support I just wanted him to pay our mortgage and keep the house going which I believe was fair...anyway he turned it against me and said he is not supporting me into leaving him etc etc and he wants me to pay the money I have off our credit card. I said that he could use the rent money we are getting from a grannyflat we have at the back of our house which is $500 a month more than enough to pay the minimum and more (we owe $4500) anyway all being said and done he appologised about the discussion and took it back (again) but now i am in limbo because I am afraid if I do use that money then he will have a fit ...maybe I should just give him his half $600 and ask my mum for a loan for the money to move???
I don't know this is soooooo hard
M