wow all I can say is, find a domestic abuse center in your area, and make an appointment to talk with one of their counselors, they can help you to sort this out, see your side.
I do not know exactly what is going on here but I would get into all the counseling appointments I could,along with the children. That should be a good beginning. Do not talk badly about their father in front of them this will only work against you later. he seems to have some plan to get you out. I would make a two year plan, keep your house clean, volenteer at school and be seen around town doing great things with my kids. I would not engage him in anything other than to keep paying the bills. Good luck let us know how things go. Cocchi
wow
all I can say is, find a domestic abuse center in your area, and make an appointment to talk with one of their counselors, they can help you to sort this out, see your side.
good luck
Edited 3/17/2006 7:09 am ET by yustak