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| Fri, 07-28-2006 - 2:48pm |
My husband left his good paying job that he was working at. It was 3rd shift but it was bringing in good money. Then he jumped to another job that he said he loved cause it was first shift. But this past monday he quit cause he said that he got bored of it and said his back was hurting cause he had to lift alot. SO, now he has been home. And I can't stand him being at home!!!! He is miserable. He just lays down watching tv the whole day. (well, can't really say the whole day cause he has been taking me to work and keeping the car, so I'm sure he is running around wasting time and gas) Point is he lays around alot Not moving to help me with anything. He even has the nerve to ask me to bring him dinner and drinks and stuff. There were times that I have brought stuff to him just so that I wouldnt' have to hear his mouth but there have been other times where i had yelled at him to get his own stuff. Nothing phases him. My son could be crying right next to him, and I would have to come from the kitchen to get him, cause his lazy butt can't get up and do anything!!!! Meanwhile, I have two more weeks left till I give birth. No baby shower, no money to get stuff for the baby. Luckily and thankfully my cousin has given me some clothes. I'm still working. But my last day is coming up next week on the 3rd. I have NO idea what to do. I'm trying not to stress too much over it. I just needed to vent I guess.

Hi elm06. I know how it is to have to wait on someone hand and foot. I however do not work so it's different. Even I get frustrated when I am expected to do the cooking, cleaning and laundry. There are 3 of us living here. I have 2 roommates.
Congrats on the coming baby. Wow! I bet you are excited. Is your dh going to watch the baby while you go to work? Is he capable? Just wondering cause I don't know who is abusing you or if you are even being abused. I just hope that your dh is good with the baby.
Stuff isn't everything. As long as you have the basics for your family you will be ok. Your baby does not know that he is wearing hand me downs or that he does not have all the new stuff out there. As long as he has his basic needs met and a whole lot of love you guys should be ok.
Sorry if I am way off here cause I don't know you or your story. I just wanted to respond to you. You sound so down :-(.