Feels like I'm Dying

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2003
Feels like I'm Dying
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Thu, 02-10-2005 - 1:53pm
My ex has ben terrorizing me on and off, but recenting, for two weeks. Everyday its threats against me and my family. For instance, yesterday he told me that he was going to beat me with the back of his gun then rape me. He spoke to my fifteen year old sister yesterday on a seperate occasion and told her that he was going to put a 35 dollar hit on me( i guess for someone to hurt me)The whole time his sister in the back ground laughing. This all stems from a year and a half ago when I left him for his reckless lifestyle and druggie friends. We have two little girls whom he took 4 days ago and won't let me come get them due to threats. 11 months ago, i met a real guy when I wasn't even looking and has been very supportive and I know he is the one. Due to this my ex(I was honest from day one with him about new guy)Is extremely jealous and says he will get me and him.I cant tell everything he does in this message.Is there anything I can do legally right away? Please help, I think he may do something.
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Registered: 12-29-2004
Thu, 02-10-2005 - 2:10pm

Get to the police and your local DV center immediately!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Make sure that you document everything, time, place, specific threat!!! The longer you wait, the more chance your ex will have to keep your children. He could possibly say that you abandoned them and , because of timing, may get to keep them!!!!! You may not want to deal with the confrontation, but you MUST!!!

Your children need you and you need them so GET GOING!!! NOW!!! Have your sister with you when you report him...the bigger the threats, the more serious you have to take them!!!! GET GOING NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-08-2005
Thu, 02-10-2005 - 2:17pm

Call the authorities NOW!


He is threatening your life, this is something very serious.

5yrssm 
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 02-10-2005 - 2:27pm

Oh, honey, I can't say anything more than what you've already been told.

CL-Blueliner4