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Filed for restraining order today!
| Tue, 07-27-2004 - 8:43pm |
Well, my ex called me today all day long. I was at work and he kept calling over and over again luckily it was on my cell phone. By the time I got out of work I had like 15 missed calls. I didnt leave my keys like he wanted and it made him angry. I even caught him in a lie. The first voicemail he left was, did you leave the key? And then it went to " I just went to your house I would appreciate a call back. My mom is mad at me because she took the day off work to help me get my stuff and now we cant get into your apartment" Which I found out was a total lie. I called his Mom because I thought they were together and she was asleep, I woke her up. And I was like oh Im sorry I woke you up but your son just called me and told me that you were at my apartment and that you were mad at him because you couldnt get in and that you took off work for him today. And shes like Im off work tomorrow he must have gotten it confused and I said no he just lied to me. And then I told her again sorry for waking you and then hung up. Then I listened to my message again to make sure I didnt listen to it wrong and I didnt. He was trying to pull one over on me because he knows that I trust his Mom and not him and that if his Mom is with him I might let him in by himself. His Mom would never let him do anything bad and he knows that I know that so thats why he lied. He calls me again after I get off work and I answer this call and hes like your reason for not leaving the key is? And Im like because I didnt want to. I told him that hes not going to be in my place by himself and that hes not going to keep on interupting my life. I told him that he will come on either a Sat or Sun to come and get his stuff because thats when Im off work and I can be at home and that if he couldnt do that or didnt like it then that was his problem not mine. I told him he had all month to get his stuff and that he chose not to get any of it and that I was not going to be his beck and call girl. Then he says you just messed up Im going to be at your apartment at 7am tomorrow with the police and Im going to take my time getting my stuff to make you late for work so you will get into trouble and get fired. So I was like ok go ahead and then I hung up. So then I went to my leasing office and told them what was going on and I gave them a pic of him and they said that if they saw him they would treaspass him. Then I went to the court house and filed for an injunction. Im sick of this. Im tired of him controlling me and threatening me and herrassing me all the time. I know that it would keep going on and on. Knowing him he wont even show up tomorrow he will just keep this up for weeks. Or if he did show up he wouldnt have the cops with him which means he would bang on my door and scream and wake the neighbors and of course I wouldnt answer it so that would make him mad and then basically I wouldnt be able to go to work because as soon as I opened the door he would push his way in. So I would end up calling the cops myself and then they would tell me to file an injunction anyway so I figured I might as well do it now because I knew I would probably have to end up doing it anyway. I feel better that I did all of this but Im going through the motions like I changed my mind 4 times on the way to the court house and then when I got home I wished I hadnt done it. I know I did the right thing but its just hard. And I feel stupid because I know hes horrible and I know that he doesnt care about me at all he just cares about hurting me and controlling me. Even though I know this in my head its hard to stop thinking of the nice side of him and I know that part is a lie too. Hes just so good at manipulating and so good at being charming. And thats the scarey part, how good he is. I am scared for the next step. When he is served with those papers hes going to go off and he will seek revenge on me someway somehow he will get me back and I know it will be through someone I love or somthing that I care about since he cant come near me he will get creative and get me someway and thats what scares me because I know him and I know how he thinks.
Melysa

Good for you!
CL-Blueliner4