first time here

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-01-2005
first time here
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Thu, 01-05-2006 - 2:53am
Hi, I just wanted to ask if anyone here could tell me where I should go to talk to others about verbal abuse. I know most of you here have worse problems like physical abuse, thats allot worse. It's just that I'm having problems with what I should do. I know my problem's quite trivial compared to what you're going through and I don't want to offed anyone here,by complaining on such a small thing in comparison. It's just that I'm so confused at some of the things that are happening, and I feel so allone right now.
Again please understand I would'nt have come here for this, but I could'nt find anyother place to go. Im so very sorry, and my heart goes out to all of you.
Thank you, and please take care of you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2005
In reply to: lukeylou
Thu, 01-05-2006 - 8:09am

Welcome, Lukeylou.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-05-2004
In reply to: lukeylou
Thu, 01-05-2006 - 11:39am
Abuse is abuse is abuse, and you're in the right spot. Truth be told, neither my abuser nor SIL's ever laid a finger on us. For me, I just don't think he had gotten around to it, and for SIL, he was the kind who has a lot more fun manipulating people. And the manipulation and cutting on you can be harder to deal with than physical violence, because it's so much harder to see clearly what is going on and what to do about it. By all means, keep reading + posting, check out the book Gonna recommends, and tell us more as you feel comfortable.
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