fustrating

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Registered: 03-26-2003
fustrating
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Sun, 03-12-2006 - 2:13pm

Dh's mom sold her house for a pretty penny so she gave dh 10 thousand. Cool. Okay so he buys more windows for the house and new furniture. Cool. Then he gives me 2 thousand so I can pay off my credit cards bills. Cool. I did not think he would do this. This was shocking. I guess he is trying to help me out.

Then I go out last night. I get back and go to bed. He wants sex but I am on my period so he says something like, "for two thousand you'd think the least you could do is give me a BJ".

I said he can have the two thousand back. I rolled over and went to sleep. Why does everything come with a price?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: visionseer
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 4:23pm
I wrote him his check back and left it for him to find so when he found it he asked what this was all about and I told him what he said. He said he was joking. I then told him yeah right, if you were joking then why did you shove me away from you? He said nothing and then he said a few minutes later, Whats wrong with you? I said what do you mean, he said, whats wrong with you, you can give a blow job once in awhile. I said-no whats wrong with you demanding I do what you want. I am not you sex slave. He said no more and went back to bed-he is hung over from last night
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Registered: 04-04-2003
In reply to: visionseer
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 4:56pm

He's a typical abuser, plain and simple, just like we have all told you.


My abuser would all the time jokingly tell me how he would get drunk and fall over on top of some woman and his d**k slip inside her.

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Registered: 10-05-2004
In reply to: visionseer
Mon, 03-13-2006 - 10:26am
This is just more of what abusers do. In their world, everything comes with a price. It would be nice to think that one day they would see the light and stop attaching strings to everything, but sadly, they never do.
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