gosh I think I hate him
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gosh I think I hate him
| Fri, 07-08-2005 - 1:48pm |
I think this is a good place for me to come and vent, you guys are great with support and point out some things I would never think about.
This morning I got up late as I was up late last night just goofing off not doing anything real important but stayed up way past my bedtime so I slept in for once. I got both of my kids fed when DH got up to get a drink of water and then to go back to bed (he works nights). I asked him if he sw the thing I bought my son. My son was sitting right there and its for his birthday so I siad thing. My son is only four but you know trying to keep it a secret. He says yes he saw the the bike. I said, shh. Then I asked will he put it together and he said, why should I when you didnt even make me dinner last night.
Okay first off I have family in town and we have been doing things with them while he is at work and my three year old also had his OT yesterday, so I didnt even get home until 630 and didn't feel like making dinner. Usually I make dinner every night. Out of seven nights I make dinner 6 of those nights in a normal week. Right now I am on summer break as I work for the school district but I am still getting paid so its not like I dont do anything. My house is clean and my kids are taken care of. ETC...Then he told me my family was already gone, yeah part of them-my cousins flew balck early but my aunt and uncle are still here.
I told him what has he done for me? He said it is the wife's place to make the man's dinner. LOL I was like yeah right. I'm your slave now? I make sure my kids are fed, he's a grown man and he can make his own dinner, you know what I mean? I told him again, what do you do for me and he said, I remolded the kitchen for you and got blinds for your kitchen. Um what? We bought this house against what I wanted (i didnt want to buy this house) and the kitchen had A HUGE hole in the ceiling that you could see all the way up to the attic through it, it had to be remolded. I told him so, he had to remolded the house.
I told him you didnt even buy me anything for mother's day or my birthday. You know what he did? Mother's day and my birthday were two days apart, two days after my birthday we got a check in the mail that neither us knew was coming that was an insurance rebate check for 7oo. He told me to cash it and keep three hundred of it which I spent on the kids and food. He told me that was my birthday present. WTF? I mean if the check wouldn't have come I wouldnt have gotten anything so its not like it actually was a birthday present. Besides my name was on that check as well.
I did not get him anything for father's day, why should I? You know its the same everytime. So I give up on presents. He took the blind that he was trying to open and tossed it into the kitchen at me, kind of like saying he was done talking to me and working on "my" kitchen.
He said he wasn't going to put together my son's Bike, again saying it out loud. My three year old piped up at that point and said, "dont be mean to my mama" at that point he went back to bed.
Gosh he just makes me so mad. I am glad I can vent here.
This morning I got up late as I was up late last night just goofing off not doing anything real important but stayed up way past my bedtime so I slept in for once. I got both of my kids fed when DH got up to get a drink of water and then to go back to bed (he works nights). I asked him if he sw the thing I bought my son. My son was sitting right there and its for his birthday so I siad thing. My son is only four but you know trying to keep it a secret. He says yes he saw the the bike. I said, shh. Then I asked will he put it together and he said, why should I when you didnt even make me dinner last night.
Okay first off I have family in town and we have been doing things with them while he is at work and my three year old also had his OT yesterday, so I didnt even get home until 630 and didn't feel like making dinner. Usually I make dinner every night. Out of seven nights I make dinner 6 of those nights in a normal week. Right now I am on summer break as I work for the school district but I am still getting paid so its not like I dont do anything. My house is clean and my kids are taken care of. ETC...Then he told me my family was already gone, yeah part of them-my cousins flew balck early but my aunt and uncle are still here.
I told him what has he done for me? He said it is the wife's place to make the man's dinner. LOL I was like yeah right. I'm your slave now? I make sure my kids are fed, he's a grown man and he can make his own dinner, you know what I mean? I told him again, what do you do for me and he said, I remolded the kitchen for you and got blinds for your kitchen. Um what? We bought this house against what I wanted (i didnt want to buy this house) and the kitchen had A HUGE hole in the ceiling that you could see all the way up to the attic through it, it had to be remolded. I told him so, he had to remolded the house.
I told him you didnt even buy me anything for mother's day or my birthday. You know what he did? Mother's day and my birthday were two days apart, two days after my birthday we got a check in the mail that neither us knew was coming that was an insurance rebate check for 7oo. He told me to cash it and keep three hundred of it which I spent on the kids and food. He told me that was my birthday present. WTF? I mean if the check wouldn't have come I wouldnt have gotten anything so its not like it actually was a birthday present. Besides my name was on that check as well.
I did not get him anything for father's day, why should I? You know its the same everytime. So I give up on presents. He took the blind that he was trying to open and tossed it into the kitchen at me, kind of like saying he was done talking to me and working on "my" kitchen.
He said he wasn't going to put together my son's Bike, again saying it out loud. My three year old piped up at that point and said, "dont be mean to my mama" at that point he went back to bed.
Gosh he just makes me so mad. I am glad I can vent here.

What a jerk.
CL-Blueliner4
You're so right. We all use this board to it's full venting potential that's for sure!
Don't feel bad about it for a second. Who the heck else can we talk to about these things?
Hugs
shawna
First off my BF is an alche too.
"Then I asked will he put it together and he said, why should I when you didnt even make me dinner last night."
I would have said did you want dinner tonight huney?
"He told me to cash it and keep three hundred of it," Please tell me you kept the whole thing!
Uhg what an arseholio! sigh, but you do not have to choose to put up with crap like that if you leave him. Get all your ducks in a row and go!