A Happy/Sad Update

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2003
A Happy/Sad Update
2
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 11:27am
Well,

First, my divorce is final. Horray!

Second, I took a huge financial hit.

I get nothing from him, except child support. Boo-hoo!

Third, I have sole custody of Tyler. Yeah!

I figured that losing my "financial" security was worth sole custody and the removal of him from our lives. I have serious doubts that he will try to see Tyler now that the divorce is final.

Anyway, I have taken a lot of heat recently, for not trying harder to get money and stuff out of Kerky, and well i just dont think it is worth elongating the relationship or giving him more amunition, or giving him the opportunity to change the custody arrangements. So I guess I shall just take the heat...lol.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 1:35pm

Hon, I agree with you completely.

CL-Blueliner4

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 10:42pm

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Mama Harmony