Has he changed or is he being sneaky?

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Registered: 06-15-2011
Has he changed or is he being sneaky?
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Thu, 06-16-2011 - 1:32am

Hi everyone

I left my

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Registered: 06-17-2006
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 11:55am
"a leopard doesn't change his spots" - he is being sneaky..he hasn't changed. this is typical abuse behavior. i go through it all the time "fooled" into believing he is changed or better, but it circles back again. Go forward with your plans of leaving. No he wont be less stressed just because he has a job. There will be new stress for new things.
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Registered: 06-15-2011
Thu, 06-16-2011 - 7:18pm

Yeah I even felt guilty for blackening his name and calling him abusive because he made such a huge turnaround.

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Registered: 02-28-2001
Tue, 06-21-2011 - 7:35am

Hi Bobby and welcome to the board.

Mama Harmony