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| Sun, 09-26-2004 - 4:04am |
What is considered mental abuse? I really hope I am not crossing any lines here, please let me know if I am. I really am not meaning to offend anyone. The man I see forbids me from talking on the phone or going anywhere. He tells me who I can be friends with and who I can't. He has even called a few of my guy friends and threatened bodily harm to them if they spoke to me again. He drives by my house to spy on me. He tells me who is allowed at my house and who isn't. He has never hit me. He has grabbed me and held me down so I couldn't walk away from him. He has swung at me one time and I turned so he ended up hitting my back. When I do something he "dissaproves" of he yells and cusses me out to the point that I am in tears. Then there is the sexual aspect of it. He makes me bleed and so sore down "there" to the point that it hurts for me to bathe. Once I was sore for almost three weeks. He always ask me if I am sore and if I say no then he gets mad and says he didn't do a good enough job. So the next time it is even worse. My friends say he is dangerous and to stay away from him but I always think he hasn't hit me so this can't be abusive. Am I wrong? I feel really weird posting this but my friends say he is mentally and sexually abusive and they are afraid it will turn physical. I hope this didn't offend anyone.

Good morning, shorty.
Mama Harmony
Hi shorty, welcome -
CL-cajunharmony said it all, right down to the fact that he is EXTREMELY DANGEROUS.
CL-Blueliner4