He doesn't really love me does he?
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He doesn't really love me does he?
| Mon, 01-03-2005 - 6:54pm |
I'm 23 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. When I first met him I thought he was someone I could fall in love with. He was sweet thoughtful and fun to be around. He did a lot of nice things for me. He taught me how to be a better driver, he's helped me find jobs, and he'd pick me from work almost everyday. Still not everything is perfect. I've been taking dance for almost two years. I'm getting pretty good at it I'm even thinking of trying to audition for this dance company this summer. I always talk about how much I love dance and how much I want a future in it but he always puts it down. He always says that my dreams are selfish because they don't include him. Not to mention he yells at me. The other day I was talking about how happy I was that I got to enjoy some of the nice weather we've been having and he yells at me. He said that I was trying to rub his face in it because he missed it and I wasen't. There were a few time that called me stupid ass when ever I did something "wrong". Then other times he tells me that I'm beautiful and that he loves me. It makes me sick.
In the past when he told me he loved me I believe him, but now I don't. I don't even wanna be around him anymore. I think if he really loved me he wouldn't yell at me and he would be supportive of my dreams. I don't know what to do. A friend of mine said that I should do things for myself to build up my self esteem so leaving would be easier I'm losing weight and finishing up school. Please help me. I could use the advice
Edited 1/3/2005 6:56 pm ET ET by astra225
In the past when he told me he loved me I believe him, but now I don't. I don't even wanna be around him anymore. I think if he really loved me he wouldn't yell at me and he would be supportive of my dreams. I don't know what to do. A friend of mine said that I should do things for myself to build up my self esteem so leaving would be easier I'm losing weight and finishing up school. Please help me. I could use the advice
Edited 1/3/2005 6:56 pm ET ET by astra225

Hi Astra, welcome -
I can't say for certain whether or not the dude's abusive, but he's selfish as all get out and needs a swift kick in the fanny.
No, I don't think this guy loves you, because if he did he would support your dreams and wishes.
CL-Blueliner4
Hi astra...real love is kind and supportive of who we are, yes, you're right.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
- Maya Angelou