He has court today with his X

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He has court today with his X
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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 11:14am
And I just need some claming words here because I am very nervous. Court is at 2 today. He did get papers served to him last Monday, it was her response to his papers and why he was takeing her back to court and what not. In her papers though she put in there that she knows that he has been verbally abusive to his current girlfriend (that is me)! I thought he would totally freak out but he didn't not to bad at least. All he said was "See I told you she would throw this in here"! Honeymmon is over though because with his son there this week end he yelled at me so bad and it was so dumb what we were argueing about, so dumb I can't even remember how it started or what it was about. However on Saturday night I had something to do and before I left he asked if I would go the store and gert him a apple pie so i did and all they had is Sugar free apple pie so i bought it brought it back home and he basically belittled me in front of his son yelling "Can;t you do anything right, for once I would really like it if you coud do something right, I didn't ask for Sugar free pie did I"? I just wanted to cry because so I thought things were going so wonderful Yeah right i should no the routine by now. I know whatever happens today I can not control however he seems a little more calm about while I am sitting here at work trying not to think about it. I can't Control whatever happens! Thanks for letting me vent
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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 1:11pm

Hi Smoothie -


This can actually work in your favor.

CL-Blueliner4

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Mon, 09-20-2004 - 1:54pm
Thanks for your support...feeling a little better about it. I went for a walk during my lunch hour and listened to my alanon tape....I have no control over what happens....its all in the good lords hands now. I will keep you posted thanks again for your support you don't know how much it means to me. Really wish I could watch that Montel show today!