He is hurting me and I need help!!!!!!!!
Find a Conversation
He is hurting me and I need help!!!!!!!!
| Wed, 04-21-2004 - 12:59pm |
Ok so I am sure everything I say is gonna look like i am so stupid, but I already know I have been a fool so here it goes. Ok well I have been with my man for 2 years and 5 months we have a 9 month old together(which by the way is the love of my life) and his father has done nothin but disrespect me forever. I have put up with to much thinkin he could change. He cheated on my 2 times as far as i know and had another child with another female while i was pregnant with ours and that was hell and I decided to give him another chance...why? I have no idea really because he is muniplitive and i felt sorry for the bastard. But anyways also since 6 months ago he decided to lay his hands on me and hurt me, he kept apologizing and so forth but it got worst because on jan 6th 2004 he hurt me so bad i lost my singing voice and lost the hearing in my right ear and now i am getting surgery on my ear but my voice is unexplainable and i have been refered to a voice study, this is ridiculous, howcome i keep alowing this i used to be a strong female that all my friends use to come to for help and I never would of put up with this abuse ever before so why him!!!!!
Ok now here is my problem just last week he hit me so hard it messed up my back and i have scoliosis with 2 medal rods in my back and now i am in complete pain every day and I can't get him to leave, but he had been shot about a month ago 2 times and is in bad condition ( but obviously not bad enough to refrain from hitting me) and he has no where to go! I have no idea what to do i am so confused and so scared it makes me sick, I am in all this pain and still takeing care of my son and trying to get this guy to get out of my life but then he gives me the whole I AM sorry speech and how much he loves me.......HELP HELP HELP, I have had ENOUGH!!!!!!
Ok now here is my problem just last week he hit me so hard it messed up my back and i have scoliosis with 2 medal rods in my back and now i am in complete pain every day and I can't get him to leave, but he had been shot about a month ago 2 times and is in bad condition ( but obviously not bad enough to refrain from hitting me) and he has no where to go! I have no idea what to do i am so confused and so scared it makes me sick, I am in all this pain and still takeing care of my son and trying to get this guy to get out of my life but then he gives me the whole I AM sorry speech and how much he loves me.......HELP HELP HELP, I have had ENOUGH!!!!!!

Hi Diva, and welcome -
Okay, let's put on the brakes for a second.
First, you're right, this is ridiculous.
CL-Blueliner4
What do you suggest to this?
Well, technically if you are the only one on the lease or whatever, you can legally ask him to vacate.
CL-Blueliner4
He is not suppose to be here at all and I am on really strict houseing i am just so scared they will kick me off housing if he makes a scene or something and that me and my baby will be on the streets. I am living in a house of HELL and the devil won't leave!
please i need more suggestions i need someone i am in so much pain with my back and mentally, this is just bullcrap that i ended up in this place, I feel for all those abused women out there, STAY STRONG!
1) Do you have a cellphone?
CL-Blueliner4
Welcome to the board, mamadiva.
Peace and hugs,
Cheryl =)
The minute you settle for less than you