he JUST mentally abused me!!!!!!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
he JUST mentally abused me!!!!!!
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Tue, 09-28-2004 - 7:55pm
he called my daughter by her cell phone tonight and told her that if i attended his mother viewing that i better keep my mouth shut and not talk about him and that i better not look at him or his girlfriend..that he didnt want me causing any trouble at his mother's funeral.

what is this????

He is trying to present ME as the abuser in front of his girlfriend? What charade is this man playing???????

Mental abuse all over again.

I pulled the cell out of her hand and said 'DONT WORRY I WILL NOT BE ATTENDING"

and hung up the phone

I know the real him.............one day girlfriend will see........probably when its too late.

they are also having a private funeral for immediate family only. Get this...the g/f of 3 weeks is attending with him. what a joke??? I dont know why i let that bother me...

seems hes turned me into the bad guy..........and the whole family is against me...

i know i just need to write the entire family off ...........i really have no place or acceptance with them any longer.

Im sorry if i sound pathetic, it is just hard after being in a family for 23 years.......to be told your not really welcome to a viewing, especially his mother.

i cried, i got it out.

now i know i have to just let it go

hes a MULE


MAYBE, his real fear is that I will tip the girlfriend off that he is an ABUSER?? eh?

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Tue, 09-28-2004 - 8:39pm

I responded upstairs, but I did want to comment on something from this post.


Is he afraid you'll spill the beans about him being an abuser?

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 08-24-2004
Wed, 09-29-2004 - 1:09am
A lot of women would not want to believe anything negative about their new man, no matter who told them. They would tell themselves the ex is spiteful or crazy or a liar or something along those lines.