He Locked Me Out....
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He Locked Me Out....
| Fri, 09-15-2006 - 8:57am |
I was on the phone later than usual last night talking about some business stuff H and I have going on---the person on the phone was also a friend of mine. After business, we chatted for a while. I was on a cell phone so I kept having to step outside so I wouldn't lose the signal. H came home (from who knows where--it was almost 10pm and he refused to tell me yesterday morning where he was going or why he would be home late) so he saw I was on the phone outside. He slammed the back door and locked me out. I got off the phone and stood outside in the dark for almost an hour. He finally let me in and refused to talk or answer why he had locked me out. This morning he woke me up and said it was time to get dd up for school and acted like non of it ever happened. Buckle in, this really is a rollercoaster ride!

AARRHHH!!... Don't you hate that so much. The rollercoaster ride. He doesn't tell you where he is going, when he will be back or anything... but as soon as you do something small that he doesn't like it is okay for him to have a hissle fit. I can't believe he locked you out of the house for almost an hour!! I would be soooo mad!
I remember one time I was at WalMart with my abuser and we were walking together and I stopped to look at something. I never said i was stopping and he kept going. He got mad at me for not telling him. Fine. But what happens the next time we go to WalMart? He is in a great mood and stops everywhere he wants to. I know this is very small, but I dealt with this all the time. Him switching stories around to make me the bad guy. I would be the one apologizing for his actions. He would never say sorry, ever!
You are not alone.... When the abuser is in a good mood, we should too. But that is not how it works.. but it is how it works in the abusers mind.
Lauren