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Mon, 11-21-2005 - 10:00pm

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Court this am - 1st:

1. They were supposed to deal with the 2 contempt charges. The past due child support will be "dealt with at trail" (fine w/ me) & today, they did "deal with" the issues of things being said in front of Ave. UNFORTUNATLY, I also got "spoken to". That attys, the GAL & the judge met in chambers. My atty told me that although the GAL did sort of defend me, telling the judge

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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 6:43am
Rebecca, ten to one he's trying to get a response from you so he can accuse you of contempt.

 

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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 9:18am

Hi Rebecca,

Since you have the folder, is there any way you can replace the picture? It's just a bandaid, and it wouldn't change what he is trying to do to you and Ave, but it might make her feel better to have the picture back the way it was.

Mel

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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 9:29am
Absolutely Mel- i did. I coudlnt imagine sending her to school having to see that everytime she opened her folder. Luckily, the photos were taped on & over with a few layers of scotch tape. So i was able to peel the top tape layers off

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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 9:33am

Oh Hun, there's gotta be a special place in he!! for people like him. I would have Averey do another folder and it is just a bandaid, but it may help her. And he wants to take away her counselor too, OMG that's just wrong on so many levels. I love how they all think the DV shelter and counselors turned us against them. Yeah, they like hipmotized me to not love you anymore and take our child as far away as humanly possible. Yeah right.

You know my dad left when I was 6 and moved from Maryland to California. I had no contact with him after that and hated him for many years for chosing his stepkids over me(my stepsister is also my age). I forgave him years ago as it took too much energy to keep hating him, but now I almost respect him more for knowing he couldn't handle it and leaving me alone to grow up healthier than I would have with his family around and knowing the people raising me loved and would always take care of me. And to this day, if I called him he would not say he wasn't my dad or my son's grandfather even though he has never met him(unlike my ex who is like a lightswitch when it comes to paternity). Because of his leaving and not forcing me to see him, I stopped having panic attacks at 6 years old, I was able to show horses and be successful doing it, I am the first person in my dad's family to have a college degree, and I was married before I had a child also a first...

Oh and I posted on the sister board about my day in court. Apparently, I too am the bad guy/mean, jealous ex wife when I try to protect my son. And the icing on the cake was when his girlfriend had my crib and furniture for the baby in her house all set up as a nursery for him. Just waiting and ready to go. Creepy huh..