The hell is over!!!!!

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Registered: 04-28-2000
The hell is over!!!!!
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Fri, 04-29-2011 - 5:50pm

Hi everyone,

I am happy to say, my hell is over.

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Fri, 04-29-2011 - 7:23pm

((hugs)) Not sure how to respond. Hope your able to find peace not that it is completly over and you remember to take care of yourself!!!


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Registered: 01-02-2008
Fri, 04-29-2011 - 8:44pm

Hi;

Wow Fun;

I dont know what to say either but God knows you were a Saint through this all. Too bad it had to be that you didnt get away before he died so that you didnt have to go through that. That alone sounded challenging to deal with. You are a strong and brave gallant woman. A shining star.

Hope you continue on your journey now abuse free and enjoy all life as to offer. The sun; the moon and the stars are yours.

Well? I didnt know your husband but RIP

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Registered: 02-28-2001
Fri, 04-29-2011 - 9:22pm

Hi Fun, my condolences to you.

Mama Harmony

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Mon, 05-02-2011 - 9:57am

Good Morning,

It's ok about your wanting to say the appropriate thing.

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Mon, 05-02-2011 - 10:27am

Hi free,

Thank you very much.

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Mon, 05-02-2011 - 10:37am

Hi Cajun,

Thank you.

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Registered: 09-06-2007
Mon, 05-02-2011 - 12:43pm
Well I'm going to say Hallelujah that is he gone for your sake. He was a rotten, damaged person and now he can harm you no more.

He had to have worked at SOME point in his adult life. What was his age? Did he get social security yet?

Is there any life insurance? Was there a will? Is there left over medical expenses?

I am very relieved you have gotten into counseling (or will be soon).

What is your plan for your life now? What kind of dreams have you always had?

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Registered: 04-28-2000
Mon, 05-02-2011 - 5:40pm

Yes, he worked and he retired from his job.

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Registered: 09-06-2007
Tue, 05-03-2011 - 11:16am
I wanted to know if you are set financially - you should be the beneficiary of his SS benefits and his pension.

When is your first counseling session?

I think you could be experiencing some Stockholm Syndrome right now.
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Registered: 04-28-2000
Tue, 05-03-2011 - 12:09pm

Hi,

Financially, I will be fine.