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| Wed, 01-12-2005 - 10:46pm |
Well, haven't been here in a long time....hi "oldtimers", things are OK for me, but finally I think I have the resources available to leave. HOORAY!!!! I will be having a family member pay for an apt. for me and my disabled child, but the mgmt. co. people are requiring my name on the lease (which I am OK with), but they are also wanting to do a credit check on me, as well as the financially responsible family member. I am, and have been, unemployed for many years, I am a SAHM. I am not on my house title, etc. The H and I do have a joint checking acct., but obviously, no money from there would ever fund my own apt., lol......could they turn me down for not telling that it existed? I am scared that as DH often checks his credit report, and is frequently doing a re fi on the house, that he would see that I have gone for an apt., which wouldn't be pretty....any thoughts???? I am so wanting to finally get out, and this is the perfect unit for me and my son!! I really do not want to lose it by refusing to do the credit report, but I know that I cannot have DH know that I am moving out so far ahead of time..it would bring out everything bad!!!! Please, do NOT try to e mail me, respond here!!!! I just so want to be free, I feel it is finally within grasp, and I don't want to mess anything up.....thank you all for your help!!!!!
Love,LL

Well, hello stranger!
Honestly, at this point I wouldn't worry about getting the credit check done.
CL-Blueliner4