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| Thu, 01-20-2005 - 9:08am |
I have been involved in an emotionally abusive marraige for 5 years. I am emotionally and physically drained from the constant mental assaults from being in this relationship. Although I have been physically separated from my husband for 2 1/2 years, we had continued to see each other and try to reconcile. He is AGAIN angry or fed up with me and has not contacted either myself or our 5 year old daughter in over a month.This is the first use of this tactic. He typically calls many times throughout the day speaking with both my daughter and myself. As ridiculous as this sounds even to me, I miss him terribly and feel awlful. I have been able not to call him but sent him a letter urging him to contact his daughter.He has not responded.My daughter has been asking for him constantly. This has been the MOST difficult part. I am having a very difficult time understanding his behavior and treatment. What do I do? Please help.

Hi honey -
This is all a form of control.
CL-Blueliner4
I guess you need to ask yourself why you still want to reconcile, if you do. Is it worth it? If he's unreliable and will have tantrums, that will happen whether or not you're with him.