Help married 23 yrs...so confused...
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| Wed, 01-19-2005 - 10:38am |
So glad I found this board, and I am going to try to make a very long ugly story short. My DH has changed so much and now he lets my l7 yr old dd literally take over the house in every way possible and makes me the child figure in the house, has anyway ever heard of such a thing. When he gets home from work, I will tell him she did not bother to do chores or called me a bi*** again, or whatever she does always a crisis with her, and he says well if you say so I only heard one side of the story, and I am being negative.
He set rules for her, and is afraid now to enforce them; everything from dating to her marks which have declined. She has NO respect for me, I actually feel sorry for her because she goes to her dad all the time for everything he is YES man. She got so mad once she broke a mirror and became a bloody mess, over me saying no to her going out. DH said to her, don't worry honey, we will get ridda that Bit*** in reference to me !!!!!
This is like a surreal nitemare, anyone been thru anything similar? Just last nite she asked him for math homework in the livingroom, where I was watching tv, of course her schoolwork comes b 4 any silly tv show, I shut off tv, and she yelled to turn that tv back on LOOL thought they were doing math, as she requested to have me take her dog outside !!! Husband yells at me and said I turned off tv just to piss her off WHAT !!!!
He was suppose to talk to her las nite re; new bf an rules along with the fact she took his movie CD outta the house w/out permission. He said he would talk to her about these issues las nite but backed off. When I asked why he was not he said I am just out to get her. I do sooo much to help her, I luv her to pieces of course, an what's funny is her friends luv me too. They tell her I am an awesome mom, what is funny is they never talk to hub. don't even really know him. What the heck do I do. It is like two sisters in this house, her and I. I can see kids coming lst they always have in this house, but I have a list where my hub. goes outta his way to spin her faults to make them mine, her teacher's her coaches...whatever Help me pls/// Thank you.
