He's At It Again
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He's At It Again
| Mon, 09-27-2004 - 11:18am |
Whelp, sitting here at work after having only 4 hours of sleep - and it took 5 sleep aid tablets for me to get that. He got furious with me (hubby of 4 years) because I made a "date" to take our 3 y.o. daughter on a boat ride with my sister and her family next Sunday afternoon. He said I was "putting her in danger". She will have a life vest on - law requires it for anybody under 12, my sister and her family are careful, and our daughter was really excited about getting to go. I got mad at him back - accused him of trying to distance me from my family, and told him I was sick of going to his family's house and never to see my family - fair is fair. He's making me out to be the abuser - yes, he made me so mad I threw a clothes hamper across our bedroom - didn't even come close to hitting him - he, of course, threatened to have me locked up for assault if I ever hit him - I never have - he's not worth it. And I knocked a long magnet off the banister again, because he was making me furious. He's always the one threatening to leave - it would really crush our daughter. I have told him if he doesn't like things then leave - nobody's holding a gun to his head to stay there. I'm sorry - I did call him a loser and deserter if he left. He doesn't like my 18 y.o. son living with us while he goes to college - I tried to send him away, my son hated it and came back home to go to college here. My son is gone to his friend's house every weekend anyway - Friday night to Sunday night. He goes to his friend's house every night and comes home around 11. My husband, of course, flew into it and said he doesn't have any "say" around the house - I told him, no, not when you're talking of throwing my son out - that's wrong. DH says he doesn't want to leave - we're his family - but then gets mad at me when I give my son money because he has to drive to school and eat something during the day.
And I'm sorry I blew up when I had given our daughter a bath, gotten her ready for bed, read to her, put her to bed, and I came out and the living room was a mess, coffee not made for the next morning, dog was not let in (it's his dog - she's short haired and I thought it was getting down to 50). I told him it wasn't right for me to totally take care of her and him not do a darn thing but sit on the couch like a lazy butt (actually I said a___). Then yesterday I asked him if he wanted a divorce - he says for me just to say the word - coward! He's putting all the heavy stuff on me. I have worked and slaved and gone without because of this family - and I will continue to do so but I expect him to treat me with respect which he's not doing. Gee, can you tell I'm stressed???!! Sorry this is so long and thank you for venting. Constructive comments are welcome - please don't "rake me over the coals" - I get that enough at home. I feel shell-shocked today - things go so well and then, Blam! Back at it again!
And I'm sorry I blew up when I had given our daughter a bath, gotten her ready for bed, read to her, put her to bed, and I came out and the living room was a mess, coffee not made for the next morning, dog was not let in (it's his dog - she's short haired and I thought it was getting down to 50). I told him it wasn't right for me to totally take care of her and him not do a darn thing but sit on the couch like a lazy butt (actually I said a___). Then yesterday I asked him if he wanted a divorce - he says for me just to say the word - coward! He's putting all the heavy stuff on me. I have worked and slaved and gone without because of this family - and I will continue to do so but I expect him to treat me with respect which he's not doing. Gee, can you tell I'm stressed???!! Sorry this is so long and thank you for venting. Constructive comments are welcome - please don't "rake me over the coals" - I get that enough at home. I feel shell-shocked today - things go so well and then, Blam! Back at it again!

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Ah, Ambien the wonder drug.
Ambien should only be taken for a maximum of 10 nights and it's usually a rocky couple of days coming off of it.
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