He's messing with my kid's minds!

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Registered: 05-20-2009
He's messing with my kid's minds!
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Mon, 01-10-2011 - 1:13pm

I've been doing great with no contact with my babies dad.

sweets35
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 1:41pm

Sweets don't you have a restraining order?

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 4:23pm

I never did get a restraining order.

sweets35
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Registered: 06-17-2006
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 8:10pm

hi sweets, I think you should just tell the kids that he needs to work on stuff, and right now, DCF has forbidden contact with the kids. In time, you will see how it goes and at some point it may be possible..just not now. Tell the kids that it is not you has forbidden contact but rather the "unpredictable" nature of the kids dad that has brought this on. Also tell..in time, maybe he can (just to close the argument) but not for now.

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Registered: 02-28-2001
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 9:09pm
Sweets, his phone numbers can be blocked from all your phones, home and cell. The phone company charges a fee for this, I think around $5.00/month, and I don't know how many numbers that will let you block, but hey, it's a start. At least worth looking into with the phone companies. Sometimes if you talk to a supervisor and explain the situation they will work with you on the fee. Doesn't always fly, but can't hurt to ask. Good luck and keep us posted.

Mama Harmony

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Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 01-10-2011 - 10:43pm
I didn't know I could block numbers from cell phones. I will definately call the company and find out about it!
sweets35