Hey You Brave Women- Problem of the moment, please help.
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|Thu, 02-02-2012 - 9:03am|
As I've read through old posts, sometimes it's as if I wrote it myself..how alike our worlds are...I don't understand all the abbreviations, but think I get most of them. So here's my problem of the moment:
I saw my ex 2 days ago, riding his Harley, with a woman on the back. He had all this new gear..wearing more new stuff that he got in a day that costs more than he's ordered to pay in child support a MONTH...(burns me up) I assume it's the same one that's been around a little bit now..the bike is in her name, she apparently has tons of money...she a bit older than him and from what I've heard, a bit homey..well there's sooo much to add, but he always tells me he loves me, and if it 'weren't for the pending charges' we'd be together and will be when they're resolved..(I don't want that)..and he always tries to make the situation w/ him and the woman out to be something other than exactly what it is....I know he is telling her what she wants to hear, my god, she is buying him everything..but I know in my heart he is destroying her life too...I have 8 years under my belt w/ that 'man' and she just a year...so let me get to the point..Why does it keep eating at me that he's with her? I keep reminding myself of the absolute hell life is w/ him..what an awful dad he is and if I could cuss on this board, i'd say exactly what he is...but NOTHING is good about him. And I have mean feelings towards her too..and feel like she deserves whatever she gets..a few months back she had filed an emergency pfa (but didn't follow thru) and charged him with unauthorized use of her car. I know this stuff because that's when HE came back in my life, begging to fix us, etc. And my brain knows why he did..his lifeline was kicking him out, his court date was coming up and he wanted to see our baby. I don't get how he