Hi everyone! Things are calm & good

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Hi everyone! Things are calm & good
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Tue, 06-28-2005 - 8:54pm

here for the time being. I've just been so busy with summer stuff, taking care of the house by myself (yikes! I now *do* appreciate the "man" jobs he always did, lol), etc. Ave & i went to a wonderful family wedding on Block Island for 3 days this past weekend & had a BLAST. & i have to tell you, not having the stress of H there, the moods, the alcohol, the innapropriate comments ... what a RELEIF, for me AND my family!


He has been seeing dd at least 1-2 times a week. I have finally figured out though, the best way to set up the visits. Originally I gave him a calendar, very easy to follow. The month of June had all his regularly scheduled days, every Wed & every other w/end, in red. Then i highlited in yellow every shift

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Registered: 06-17-2004
Tue, 06-28-2005 - 9:15pm

Thanks for updating us! I was beginning to wonder how you and Avery were :o)


My idiot STBX got some hoochie girlfriend who he's blowing all his money on, so he's still living with some guy who he pays rent to by buying him a bottle of liquor every week or so. Since he doesn't have his own place he can't do much visitation, so just a bunch of partying. The boys are doing well though.


Little Brody should be here any day now!!! For the last three weeks I've been having contrax, but false labor. I've been having them 4 minutes apart for hours at a time only to go to the hospital and be sent home! I'm sooo paranoid though b/c I can't wait till they get too bad b/c I have to drive myself to the hospital, get sitters, all of that stuff! I just wish they'd give me a big fat IV of pitocin!!! LOL


Glad you had fun at the wedding!!!! While I am stressed about money, it's sooo nice not having STBX around! Noone Mooing at me, telling me to get a real job, or that I'm not a good mom because every stitch of laundry isn't done and put away! He's treating his new girlfriend like a queen, but we'll see how long that lasts!! LOL Oh, and now he wants a 50/50 physical custody split! I actually have a question about that if you might know...will the court allow that if the children will be with a babysitter for the majority of his half of the time? He works either 6am-5am or 12pm-11pm (or later) and the kids would be with sitters for that time. Plus, he's moving two hours away in about six months. He's told me before that he wants a 50/50 split so that he doesn't have to pay child support, not b/c he loves the kids. He actually told me he'd be

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Registered: 02-08-2005
Tue, 06-28-2005 - 9:38pm
Hey Rebecca and Samantha!!!!
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