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| Thu, 07-15-2004 - 11:59am |
Maybe I should be putting this in the Off Topic discussion but here it goes. How can I explain to my friends and family on why i stay? For instance I have been talking with his X-wife ( I know its wrong but i figure she has been there too) and its like she calls me everyday here at work just to make sure I am ok or will E-mail me. When I did leave for the three days I was out she was one of the people who came and helped me move some stuff out. SO does NOT know that and would be really pissed off if he knew she was even at our place. I don't know if she is truly being my friend or just really hates him. I can't even explain it myself sometimes why i stay. Maybe because i hang on to those good few times that we do have. Things have been OK for awhile now not the greatest but Ok. So any ideas here. Its not just her that aske me either why stay it is family and other really good friends. Thanks for any advice

I'm sorry I didn't get to you yesterday, my office has been insane.
As far as family and friends go, it's hard to explain abuse to someone who has never experienced it.
CL-Blueliner4
No, I agree completely with you in regards to your H and the buying of his son.
He's buying the loyalty of his son, not because he loves him, but because he doesn't want her to have him.
CL-Blueliner4