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|Tue, 02-15-2011 - 11:39am|
I have decided that I am going to take the next couple of months to get my finances in order and also take time to visit my folks who are out of the country. In the meantime, I am having serious heart palpitations..due to stress.
When I think of leaving, I feel I have not been able to do so due to the feeling of guilt inflicted by DD, finances etc. Atty had once told me say to your H upfront that things are not working out and lets decide the house separation and then leave once temporary orders are in place. Since he is a bully, he may try intimidation but then he can be asked to leave.
thinking about next steps..is making me anxious already..any ways to cope? I am taking it a day at a time..I really feel..I may have come to some terms about my own health...and have to make decision based on that. I can no longer be the 'sacrificing' person I have been. I feel I will have a heart attack. I can't sleep well..and it affects my work. thanks for letting me vent.