how do I ensure no abuse when dd spends time with dad..
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|Fri, 07-29-2011 - 11:17pm|
Is she in denial? Says he is not abusive..and I made it worse. Yes, he yells now and then but he is a good person. Now if I try to mention anything about her dad and abuse, she gets mad at me. Somewhere I read- either the child will hate their dad, or do whatever it takes to earn his affection. At this point she wants a dad than none at all. The therapy didnt work out and I did not force..as she sort of normalized after her dad reached out to her..see..how her happiness/mood is influenced by his behavior. Pretty pathetic. I am very scared that she will flip oneday, he will flip and somebody will get hurt and I am not around. What can I say and how can I say (or prepare her) without her alienating me?