How do I find out ex's release date?
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How do I find out ex's release date?
| Sun, 10-10-2004 - 11:41pm |
I think my ex is supposed to be released sometime this month but I'm not sure. I tried calling the detention center that he's at and they said that they couldn't give out that information. I called hodac and they said that they couldn't find his release date anywhere and told me to call the superior court but they don't give out the information either. Anybody know who else that I can call to find out?

Mama Harmony
As far as the release info being public, you bet it is. I would speak to a supervisor if you come across that again. As Harm said, get that RO ASAP. It can't hurt to be prepared. Has your ex been trying to contact you while in custody? Has he threatened you. If he has, please don't take that lightly. Also, like Harm said, Victim Services can be your best friend, go to court with you, help you with counseling/medical bills, even relocation if you are in imminent danger. They also can call prisons/jails/district attorneys on your behalf. The advocates are very knowledgable about the court system. But you have to have a police report to open a case with them.
Good luck and hugs!
Liz
As far as the child support goes. He can choose not to pay. But if you have a court order, the monthly amount he chooses not to pay will start to add up. It will eventually effect his credit, possibly his driving priviledges. States and counties are trying to get really tough on people who don't pay their child support. Those forms are also available online, once again I don't know the website. You can also go to the district attorney child support division office for your county and they will help you get that court order. It is worth it to do this. It doesn't mean he will pay, but at least he will be held accountable.
Again, good luck and hang in there. I know this is frustrating and sometimes feels hopeless. Just keep working on it. Your safety/children's safety depends on it.
Hugs
Liz
No problem, Issa.
CL-Blueliner4
Hi, Michelle, I have held off on posting back to you because I wanted to do some more checking on your options regarding child support.
Mama Harmony
I forgot to post this link.
Mama Harmony