How to stick to a plan..
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|Fri, 03-04-2011 - 12:03pm|
..So..I have been thinking that this summer might be a good time again to see if I can separate. As you all know I was ready to leave last year but wasn't strong enough to deal with DD. She is a high strung 14 year old reluctant for any new change..always being that way. Anytime I bought up the fact I was leaving, she would get real angry and it went from..you can go but I am not coming..to..YOU ARE NOT leaving. Therapist says she has learned the ways from her dad and is strong willed.
I have been given 2 choices -1) start proceedings while IN the house..benefit, DD will not see me as leaving..but it will be a mutual decision..and once she realizes that, she may get more used to it. 2) leave as planned and tell her why (as much as possible) and that