I am so mad at my kid’s school!!

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Registered: 05-14-2004
I am so mad at my kid’s school!!
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Wed, 03-16-2005 - 10:11am

I am so made at my kid’s school!

Some of you may rember me posting about my teenager girl getting abused buy her boyfriend and it happened at school I got her in to counseling and she was doing good other than him giving her a hard time at school. We she took him back I wanted to end it
My self but hubby thought we was better off letting her see him but only at our home so that she didn’t hide seeing him and fell she couldn’t come to us if (or when he did it agene) well I didn’t know it till the other as to why she took him back I thought it was because well we have all been their in feel we have to save them. The other day we was talking and she told me her friends think she lucky because we will not make her stop date him she said she thinks their the lucky one because there parents do I told her I would be happy to say I did I and why we felt it was best not to end it last time but if she wasn’t me to then I know I don’t have to worry she hiding him. Well turns out she only took him back because the school consular made her fell bad for ending it that why she wants me to tell them I did so she will leave her alone so she when to school and told him I said they had to end it he went crying to the school consular she called me I told her I felt they was just to attached to each other and I want my kid to spend more time on her school work and getting in to a good collage than a boyfriend and that they was not to even talk to each other in school well the boy said he was to upset to stay at school
And went home the school consular called my kid out of class and told her that she cloud still see him with out me knowing that she was wrong for not being with him and it was hurting him to much that she would not tell me they was dating at school!!!
She told her that there were other people at school that would tell me.
I am so made that the school consular would be
1. Make my kid fell bad for ending it with any boy
2. Tell my kid she should be with a boy she know it hitting my kid
3. Telling her to go behind my back and do anything she know I don’t want her doing
It is just wrong she is there to help my kid do good in school not deal with her boyfriend troubles. And make her fell bad for leavening a abusive a** hole I can not tell you how made I am right now I have tried to call the consular all day but she will not talk to me I tried calling the school they give me the run around I told jenny to leave school if she tries to talk to her about him and come right home!
I don’t have a car so as soon as my friend gets here I am going up to the school
How can she do this to my kid!

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 12:15pm

Hi Jenny -


For starters, the school counselor does not understand abuse.

CL-Blueliner4