I am SO proud of myself

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Registered: 01-06-2005
I am SO proud of myself
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Tue, 02-21-2006 - 2:25pm

my H called me a few hours ago...and asked if I could meet him at work,and pick him up ...he was stranded bc his truck wouldnt start....as bad as I hated to be ugly (my problem)I said NO WAY...I told him to call his mom.he said ...well... F you then BI*CH.

Then he showed up here ....the door was unlocked ,so he just came on in ....said he needede to get some more of his things that he had left ....so he did ...and I stayed in the other room...watching carefully....Then he comes in and tries to hug me ,,,,asking me if I had decided against or for getting a divorce ....I told him That I didnt ahve to talk to him ..and to get the H*ll out of MY house bf I call the cops ..and if he called or came back I would get a protective order!!!! he left crying ....I am so glad that I stood up to him !!!

Even though he tells me its not my fault... I cant help but feel it is in some way ,...he did tell me he needed me to do more, and that he wasnt feeling connected to me because of the distance ...But he really didnt give me a c

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Registered: 01-10-2005
Tue, 02-21-2006 - 5:26pm

Good for you!!! Now didn't that feel great??? It's amazing how much strength we can mustur up when we finally break from that short "chain" they keep us on.
Just be careful Love, this one sounds like he could be dangerous.Always keep your guard up.Keep your doors locked,etc.. and I know I sound like a broken record BUT... get that restraining order!! lol

Serenity