I feel out of control

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Registered: 04-11-2003
I feel out of control
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Thu, 04-01-2004 - 4:08pm
So everything has been fine. We have had a lot of talks lately and I think they have been good talks. Today he calls me and says he went and got a marriage liscence application!!!! I am feeling all the mixed emotions right now. I am NO way ready for marriage. I still feel he needs a lot to work on. What do I do?!!! So nervous and scared right now
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 4:36pm

Smoothie, whatever you do, DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 7:50pm
I have to agree here...If I had the chance to go back to the day that my H hit me,(he was my boyfriend at the time), I would now say"no way i'm marrying someone like you". Abuse is not love. It seems so much harder when you're married to deal with the issue. Please DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN. His kind of hurt will only happen again. Let us know how things continue for you.

strength76
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 9:53pm
So he's pulling out the big guns.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

- Maya Angelou