I felt so bad!
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| Sun, 08-08-2004 - 8:06pm |
So in a way I am relieved that it is still in effect after reading the reply to my other post, as it has got me thinking. I am getting ready to move into a new nice apartment close to my son and my schools and hopefully I will be getting a scholarship. I don't want to give that all up, I told him that and I am not being fair to him, (BIG RED LIGHT)!!! I told him that I will not even consider having the TRO dropped now and that he can still have his visitation as is stated in the TRO, needless to say he got a little upset about that.
So I now have my mom saying that I need to write a letter the the judge telling him that I am missing out on a lot of family things as my family invites my H to everything going on, my brother's wedding reception, my other brothers baptism, my son's birthday etc, I have gone to these things but we just stay on oppisite sides of the place the event is going on at, but my mother wants me to lie to the judge and when I told her I won't do it she got mad. I told her that the TRO was good for another 5 months and then it won't be a big problem, she still does not get it, I am the liar for saying that my H beat the crap out of something I have never said. I am not dropping the TRO and they can both be mad at me all they want. I have a new life to start living and if I give into them I know I won't be happy at all. My H is mad becasue my son is going to have to have his tonsils out after his third b-day and he can't be there for that, not like he wanted to be there before. So anyways I just wanted to thank you all for this board as I have been learning a lot from here. Got to run, talk to you all later.
Angel
