I have a question????

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I have a question????
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 11:09pm
HMM< you can go to my other post under abuser traits etc. Well, this evening I got a call from that evil woman I mentioned who happens to be my relative. Whom is sposedly havin an affair w/my stbx. Well, before I allowed my stbx to see the children; I explicitly told him not to be talking to her, b/c of all the lies she was spreading about me & the kids. Plus, she was telling people I didn't like her b/c of stbx...totally untrue. I have my reasons way b/f he came into the pic. so and I told him that too, that it had nothing to do w/him. I also told him that his daughter didn't like the fact that he(stbx) was callin her n tryin to have her come over n eat w/them. So, told him if you continue to talk to her and I hear anything back then that is it..Now this. Oh yeah, and my brother confronted her about all the things she said about me n the kids and she totally denied everything. Well, when she called this pm she said that I was sposed to call stbx...b/c she said,"that old man is havin internal bleeding and so they are all gettin ready to leave for Phoenix." in her so so nice voice. I was like he knows the number why didn't he call? She said he knows the home, but he thinks you're at work..so he knows that number too. So, I just told her, "well I am busy and hung up." So, I don't know but since he knows what my thoughts are on her...I haven't called him and I am not going to play into his little games. you know. Well, if u have any suggestions please let me know?
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 12:35am

Why can't he do it?

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 7:35pm
Yeah, well I didn't call him at all. I mean he knows the deal so he has to deal w/the consequences of his behaviore/actions. Yup, I told her when he first left and she was all like actin like she didn't know him..cooing that she didn't even know who he was etc. She is and he is full of baloney. But whenever they have an audience they act like the drama queen/king u know. So, anywayz I have my own life now and I don't need to be dragged into that family no more. Well, if I was at home I would've never ans. her call but I was at work so I didn't ans but a coworker did, so I had be professional about it. I wanted to say more to her but...it's all for the best now though. He'll realize that it's completely over no more..game playin' from him or her. It's sad though that I can see through their lies, deceit etc but they are so transparent, like I said give em enough rope n eventually they will both fall. So, they will both get what they deserve. Her old man don't know ( I think) what she's doing behind his back. But, yet its his house, etc etc so karma will work. She does this all the time w/all of her relationships, she becomes suicidal etc, the whole 9 yds thing. So, nope..I'll let u know if anything should happen. But, I don't think so. Yes, she can have him..he's like no great catch..I would know..soo n I also told him I would never fight for him cuz he's jus not worth it..whomever wants u can jus have u..lol. Yes, I won't even talk 2 her anywhere..she knows that too..she can go where the sun don't shine if u ask me. We had probs b/f him tho n I didn't miss not talkin to her then so I am enjoyin this where I don't have to even speak to her much less be anywhere near her. Yup, I agree about her being his victim but its their prob not mine...n I won't play their childish games either.