I have a serious question...re: stbx
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I have a serious question...re: stbx
| Mon, 10-18-2004 - 1:39pm |
Hello: I haven't been on here in like ages...well I have a question...I have been seperated since Feb. 2002. Well, since then stbx has called me at work/home etc. He has relatives telling him information. We went to court several times, the last time he was sposed to take them from june to aug and I refused to give them up? So, I don't know he's been telling people that I will be arrested for contempt of court etc. He did tell his boss that once he took the kids that I would have to fight for them in court. He currently lives in Arizona, he works for the Indian Health Service, he has been promoted to the Maint. supervisor? He does have a govt. house? He moved back there about a year ago. He was having this affair w/this particular woman..which was one of the reasons for the break up of our marriage. So, after we seperated he moves in with her about 6 months after that at her home area. Then he moves to aZ so she follows him down there. Well, now I guess she left him and moved back to her home. B/c she didn't wanna get caught in the middle of what's goin on and get in the way? I saw him about a week ago at a social gathering his hair was long, unkempt, looked like he didn't shave for awhile...etc. But I didn't talk to him, he did visit w/the kids for awhile? But, now I am getting anonymous calls at work again.(I had to refile the PO again) Which we went to court on friday but had to end up refiling again. What do u have as suggestions? Or what do you think he will try? Do you think he will try to come back? etc. I have all of these ??? in my mind and trying to be proactive here, so I will be better prepared with whatever he should decide to do..??? A part of me sometimes want that dream again...and then again I just don't ever wanna live that hell..ever again. So I would appreciate some encouragement/discouragement or if some of you had gone back after what I described what happened?
