I need help dont know what to do!!
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I need help dont know what to do!!
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 8:44pm |
My ex moved out on July 5th. After weeks of trying to get him to leave. But he left all of his stuff. He came in my apartment while I was at work and got most of his clothes and left everything else. He wouldnt give me my keys back and I didnt have the money to change my locks. In that first week he was in my place 3 times. I know because he left clues. I know he took a shower and I know he did laundry. He is a jerk and Im so mad that he came in my place and did that stuff. He has had all month to get his stuff. After the first week he finally stopped coming by. I tried to get a hold of him to tell him that he needs to come get his stuff. I left messages on his voice mail and left messages with his cousins where he is staying. This went on for weeks. This past Friday he calls me and tells me hes going camping on the weekend and he needs to get some of his things. I tell him that hes going to have to wait untill I am home. He gets all mad and says he cant wait they are leaving in an hour and besides he still has keys and he can go in my house because his stuff is there. I told him that he did not live there anymore and we were not together anymore and that he cant just walk in my place whenever he pleases and I demanded my keys back. Well he hung up on me. I couldnt leave work and I didnt know what to do so basically all day I was so nervous. When I got home I looked around and he didnt take anything of mine and he didnt take anything of his except for a fishing pole. He didnt get any of his stuff. He did leave my keys though so I was happy about that and shocked. My friends say he made an extra spare and to be careful. Well today he calls me again and says he wants to come get some of his stuff. I tell him that hes not going to just get a little here and there that when he comes he needs to take all of it and that I dont want him in my apartment alone. That hes going to have to set up a date and time to come by and get his stuff. He gets all mad again and starts threatening me. Telling me that I cant keep his stuff from him blah blah and because his stuff is in my house he still lives there. Hes doing this so he can stay in contact with me and control me. As long as I have his stuff here hes going to keep this up. He told me to leave my keys under my mat tomorrow or hes going to call the cops and make me late for work and get me fired. I told him to go ahead and call the cops because I would like to talk to them too. But the fact that he might come here in the morning and cause me to be late for my job is messed up because its a new job and I could get fired if he makes me late or makes it where I cant go and he knows this. I dont know what to do. I have called the police and they told me tell him to come on a certain day to come get it. But they dont understand that he wont do that. He wants me to jump whenever he says. He wants me to stop everything for him. He has had all month and those 3 times he was here to get his stuff. Hes doing this to be a jerk. And its stressing me out and he knows it too. Im not going to let him just come in here without me here and thats what he wants. I dont trust him he could clean out my place. Hes not on my lease but he thinks he can do whatever he wants. When he doesnt get his way hes mean and he scares me. I just want him to have his stuff and leave me alone but hes being horrible about it. I cant take his stuff to him because hes staying with a cousin and I know if I take it over there they will stop be from leaving it, physically stop me and if hes there he will go off on me. I dont know what to do. If I put it outside the cops say I can get into trouble. What am I suppose to do just let him do whatever he wants. Im so sick of this. I know he will show up here tomorrow morning or one of these mornings and cause havoc. He has like 10 boxes and he wants to come every now and then and pick up a little here and there. I hate him!!!!!!!!!! He says I dont have a way to get all my stuff at one time. If I call the cops will they make him take his stuff all at once? Because I have a feeling that if he shows up here Im going to have to call them. He will literally keep me from leaving to go to work. He will push his way in the door if I open to even try to go to work. He has done that before so I know. If I dont answer the door he will stay and bang and yell and just threaten me so I know I will have to call the police. I just need some advice. Please.
Melysa

I wish you luck.
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