I never thought he'd do it
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I never thought he'd do it
| Wed, 04-12-2006 - 11:03am |
I have been in an abusive relationship for over 4 years now. It was always emotional abuse and then it has turned into verbal and physical abuse as of last week. Let me start by telling you what happened the past few weeks.
I had to have my gallbladder removed about 3 weeks ago. When I asked him to take me to the ER he acted like he was fraustrated he had to leave the bed.

Hi fire,
If you do have a place to go,I would leave a.s.a.p. Do you have anyone that can help you move your belongings out possibly while he's a work? I don't see this situation getting any better, especially with the son possibly moving in.The man choked you,doesnt matter why.REAL men do NOT hit women.Get a restraining order if you feel you need one,and dont hesitate to call the police if you feel you need to.Keep us posted.
Serenity
>>I am leaving gradually. I have a place to go but I am recovering from my surgery and need to move things slowly <<
that's a good start
>>The sad part is I don't know if I can end the relationship completely yet but I know I am moving out.<<
you can end it completely, just remember this,
"I hate to even look at him" and the reasons why.
>>I am scared of him. I am scared of leaving. I am scared of being on my own, again. I know I can do it but I am scared.<<
this is normal, you will get 'you' back, in time.