I Took The Quiz

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Registered: 05-18-2004
I Took The Quiz
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Tue, 05-18-2004 - 5:36pm
Okay so, I took the Quiz. There were 122 Qu's and I answered Yes to 61. I wonder what that means! I am new here and haven't told my story yet, but saw the quiz and wanted to see how well or not well i fit in.

thanks for listening in the future, Mandalinn

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 5:57pm

Hi Freedom, and welcome -


It doesn't matter how much you "fit in".

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 7:23pm
i haven't actually decided to share my story as mine is very different from most. i am the reason wellmaybe not the reason but kinda the reason my guy is so abusive mentally and emotionally. i wouldn't mind shareing in an email or somehting because i know my guy reads the posts sometime to see if i am sharing my woes as he calls them. he would like nothing more to see that i am on the computer and telling people his business. i only chat on ivillage while i am at work so as he can't see what i do at home computer.... but he knows where i like to go and talk to folks. i had to make a new name as a n id on ivillage to not let him know that i was talking... to anyone. as i have had to give up all friends and not allowed to talk w/family... as he tapes most of my calls and checks my cell phone.

but to tell my story on open pages and him read it would be so easy because i am sure that no one else's story is like mine...

Help, Mandalinn

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Tue, 05-18-2004 - 7:29pm

If you would like to email me, the email link is active for my profile.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 11-11-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 1:19am

Welcome to the boards, freedom.

Peace and hugs,

Cheryl =)

The minute you settle for less than you

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 1:39am

One other thing I wanted to suggest is to not put your name in your posts.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Wed, 05-19-2004 - 3:10am
Where is that quiz? I'd like to take a look it at, thanks.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 1:56pm
thanks for the info. i created this name at work and my name mandalinn isn't my real name either. i will have to send my email to the CL someday that i have a computer that is not at home. and i can't send emails from work computer as it has a secured computing site in place...

i noticed someone on the end of this post well, actually number 7 post wasking for the link to the quiz. i don't rreally remember where i got the link, so can someone else help out. today is a busy day at work. i have lots of accounts to catch up as it is getting close to the end of the month. i am over many accounts as i am the one who types the slowest but is good at what i do.

work is about the onlyl place i get any praise for doing something right!

will email soon, Mandalinn

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 2:00pm

It's actually not really a quiz, it's the abuse checklist below in the OT section.


If you can use a computer at the local library, we have had posters in the past do that, so just know that's an option.


Whenever you're ready!


CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 04-18-2003
Fri, 05-21-2004 - 3:44pm
Welcome to the board Mandalinn. I used to be a regular poster here..now I just come and go..drop in when I can...post when I feel I have something to offer...and sometimes post to get something off my chest, for support or just to share something.

I too receive praise at work...but never received it in any other part of my life. As much as I tried to please my husband...it was never good enough for me..and that was very painful.

I have been apart from my husband for nearly two years...and even now I try extra hard to please everyone in my life..and I'm sure that came with always trying to have to please him.

Anyway...I'm sure you will fit in just fine here...and whenever YOU feel like telling your story..and however YOU feel like telling it...I know there will be support offered to you. We all here have a bond...although our stories may be different in many ways...in many ways they are similar.

Again....Welcome!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 12:54pm
What quiz is this? I would like to take it-where do I find it?

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