If looks could kill...

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Registered: 12-29-2004
If looks could kill...
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Sun, 01-09-2005 - 10:25pm

I'd be dead tonight!!!

I went to the police station to pick up my daughter because of yesterdays confrontation with my STBX and his foul mouthed daughter out in my front yard...He's really angry because he was cited for so many things including habitual traffic offender. He is now facing some time in jail (2 years) and will probably get even with me...

Yes, I am afraid of him as he has told me in the past that if he had the money, he would have his 3rd wife killed. I have no doubt in my mind that he is threatening the same to me.

He also told me that the reason he didn't keep in touch with one of his sister's was because she conspired to have their parents killed. Now I know that it was probably him who did the conspiring...this man didn't even know that his mom had passed away until 3 years after she died...how sick is that?

I can't believe that I ever had anything to do with him but, you all know, they say the right things, they do the right things and then once they have you, you're just an object to be used and abused. Every time I feel myself missing him, I have to remind myself of all the nasty things he has said and done to me and others. Thank the GOOD LORD I got out when I did...a day late and 200,000 dollars in debt...Oh what have I done to deserve this cr*p!?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 2:06am
Can you get a RO on him AND that psycho dd of his? R~
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Registered: 12-29-2004
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 11:36am

I spoke with my attorney this morning (before 8:00 a.m. my time, he said I was the first voice he heard this morning and hadn't even had his coffee yet; LOL). I relayed to him what had taken place over the week-end and asked him about the RO. He said that unless I had been physically attacked it might seem to the courts that I was doing whatever I could to keep DD away from her dad, so he advised against it. He did however inform me that on Friday he filed contempt of court charges against my STBX for non-payment of child/spousal support, and for not complying with other court orders. He also said that this may be what we need to convince the courts that he's every bit of abusive and psychologically impaired as we have stated before.

This attorney is a GEM!!! Even though I owe him over 4,000.00 dollars he has seen what my STBX is made of and believes that I have indeed been abused over the 6.5 years we were together. He is fighting for me tooth and nail and has zero tolerance for dead-beat, abusive men. My hope for anyone else out there is that they find an attorney like mine...I wish I could share him with you all!!!

Take good care of yourselves and keep posting!

Hugs!

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Mon, 01-10-2005 - 2:50pm

Sounds like you have a great attorney.

CL-Blueliner4