Im afraid to get yelled at! But i need
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Im afraid to get yelled at! But i need
| Mon, 03-28-2005 - 1:10pm |
some opinions. I know i shouldnt even be talking to them, but really, i am taking info IN, not giving anything crucial OUT!


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No yelling, just trying to get you to stop and give this some non-emotional thought.
You're doing nothing but creating more emotional pain by allowing these two ding-dongs to keep talking to you.
CL-Blueliner4
Now this is just me and I will tell you what I would do if I were in your situation. Don't necessarily take this advice because you know him, I don't. I've learned to become a little manipulative with my ex, I have to be. This is just what "I" would do.
As women I think it is not in our nature to be manipulative. But I see SO much leverage here for you it is unreal. I would be having a settlement agreement typed up ASAP stating everything I wanted. I would just say "sole" with everything. Sole physical custody, sole legal. It doesn't necessarily even have to mention "supervised" as far as visitation goes. When you have sole legal and physical custody, he has visitation only on YOUR terms. I would be all sweet and nice to get what I want. I would use any leverage I could. Once that is signed he is done.
Whoa Whoa Whoa!
I think we all got confused because there was too much info in there.
CL-Blueliner4
I confused you again. No WAY i woud do it w/o a lawyer.
I'll be gentle. :)
I think your new favorite phrase should be, "You'll have to contact my lawyer".
You're paying him well. Let him do his job. Sit back and watch the show. Let your lawyer handle it. That's a part of his job description.
Cut all contact. I'm now starting to worry. Alot of us here have been through a similar mess. On many levels. Cut all contact. Let your lawyer deal with it.
Cut the emotional ties and let... things... go.
That's my advice.
(((Huggles)))
Thinking of you,
Me
Okay, got it.
I drew up my own proposal and submitted it to my rep.
CL-Blueliner4
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