I'm Free! I really did it!

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Registered: 04-11-2003
I'm Free! I really did it!
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Mon, 04-26-2004 - 3:00pm
This was my week end when i left him. I am feeling very confused HAppy but part of me wants to go back. Is this normal. I will write more later but I am just so confused and I didn't know where to go! Feeling, sad, anxious, happy just all weird! Thanks Guys!
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 3:46pm

Yes, this is completely normal.

CL-Blueliner4

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Registered: 10-12-2003
Mon, 04-26-2004 - 4:10pm
Smoothie

I separated from my husband almost two weeks ago and believe me it is a roller coaster!! I have to constantly remind myself of the things he's done and said.... it so easy to remember the good stuff...I'm not really sad but am having trouble sleeping.

I don't really miss him so much as the relationship or having that other person around. I also am still in contact with him but it is more to deal with the details like bills, living arrangements.... It's hard because I start to think maybe I was wrong. I even asked my friend today, "He was abusive, right?"!! She reminded me in no uncertain terms that YES, he was!!!! You need those people around you right now, at least I do.

Good Luck and stay strong!